Wednesday, October 27, 2010

America We Will Over Come

Frank Schaeffer is a New York Times best selling author

SAYS
   
President Obama Will Triumph & So Will America”
 By Frank Schaeffer
Before he'd served even one year President Obama lost the support
 of the easily distracted left and engendered the white hot rage of
the hate-filled right.  
(In politics, Left, left-wing and leftist are generally used to describe support for social changes to create a more egalitarian society.[1][2] The terms Left and Right were coined during the French Revolution, referring to the seating arrangement in parliament; those who sat on the left generally supported the radical changes of the revolution, including the creation of a republic and secularization.) Retrieved from the http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Left-wing_politics
The word egalitarian means: believing in equality/maintaining, relating to, or based on a belief that all people are, in principle, equal and should enjoy equal social, political and economic rights and opportunities.  From the Encarta Dictionary
But some of us, from all walks of  life and ideological backgrounds -- including this white, straight,  57-year- old, former religious right wing agitator, now progressive writer and (given my background as the son of a famous evangelical leader) this  unlikely Obama supporter -- are sticking with our President. 
    Why?--  because he is succeeding.
   
    We faithful Obama supporters still trust our initial impression of

    him as a great, good and uniquely qualified man to lead us.
   
    Obama's steady supporters will be proved right.
   Obama's critics 
    will be remembered as easily panicked and prematurely  discouraged at best and shriveled hate mongers at worst.

   
   
The Context of the Obama Presidency
    Not since the days of the rise of fascism in Europe , the Second 
    World War and the Depression has any president faced  more 
    adversity.  Not since the Civil War has any president led a more 
    bitterly divided country.  Not since the introduction of racial 
    integration has any president faced a more consistently short-
    sighted and willful ignorant opposition - from both the right 
    and left.
    As the President's poll numbers have fallen so  has his support from
some on the left that were hailing him as a Messiah  not long ago;  all those lefty websites and commentators that were falling  all over themselves on behalf of our first black president during the 
 2008  election.

   
    The left's lack of faith has become a self-fulfilling "prophecy"--
    snipe at the President and then watch the poll numbers fall  and 
    then pretend you didn't have  anything to do with it!
   
Here is  what Obama faced when he took office-- none of which was his  fault:
1.    An ideologically divided country to the point that America was 
    really two countries.
2.    Two wars; one that was mishandled from the start, the other that was unnecessary and immoral.
3.     The worst economic crisis since the depression.
4.     America’s standing in the world at the lowest point in history.
5.    A country that had been misled into accepting the use of torture
of prisoners of war.
6.    A health care system in free fall.
7.    An educational system in free fall.
8.    A global environmental crisis of history-altering proportions 
    (about which the Bush administration and the Republicans had done nothing) and denied.
9.    An impasse between culture warriors from the right and left
10.        A huge financial deficit inherited from the terminally 
    irresponsible Bush administration.
11.        And those were only some of the problems sitting on the 
    President's desk!
   
    "Help" from the Right? 
  What did the Republicans and the religious right, libertarians and
    half-baked conspiracy theorists -- that is what the Republicans 
    were reduced to by the time Obama took office -- do to  "help" our new president (and our country) succeed?
 1.  They claimed that he wasn't a real American, didn't have an American birth certificate,
 2.   Wasn't born here was secretly a Muslim, was white-hating "racist",
3.   Was secretly a communist, was actually the Anti-Christ, (!) and was
4.  A reincarnation of Hitler and wanted "death panels" to kill the 
    elderly!
 5.  They  not-so-subtly called for his assassination through the not-so-subtle use  of vile signs held at their rallies and even a bumper 
    sticker quoting  Psalm 109:8.
6.  They organized "tea parties" to sound off against imagined  insults and all government in general and gathered to howl at the moon. 
7.  They were led by insurance industry lobbyists and deranged (but well financed) "commentators" from Glenn Beck to Rush Limbaugh.
 
 8.  The utterly discredited Roman Catholic bishops teamed up with the utterly discredited evangelical leaders to denounce a president who was trying to actually do something about the poor, the environment, to diminish the number of abortions through 
 compassionate programs to help women and to care for the sick! 
9.  And in Congress the Republican leadership only knew one word: "No!"

10.  In other words the reactionary white, rube, uneducated,  crazy 
    American far right,combined with the educated but obtuse 
    neoconservative war mongers, religious right shills for big 
    business,  libertarian Fed Reserve-hating gold bug, gun-loving 
    crazies,  child-molesting acquiescent "bishops", frontier loons and
evangelical  gay-hating flakes
found one thing to briefly unite them: their desire to stop an uppity black man from succeeding at all costs!
 
"Help" from the Left?
   
What did the left do to help their newly elected president?
1.   Some of them excoriated the President because they disagreed with the bad choices he was being forced to make regarding a war in Afghanistan that he'd inherited from the worst president in modern history!
 2.  Others stood up and bravely proclaimed that the President's    economic policies had "failed" before the President even instituted them!  
3.  Others said that since all gay rights battles had not been fully won within virtually minutes of the President taking office, they'd been "betrayed"! (Never mind that Obama's vocal support to 
the gay community is  stronger than any other president's has been.
 
 4.   Never mind that he signed a new hate crimes law!)
 
  5.  Those that had stood in transfixed legions weeping with beatific emotion on election night turned into an angry mob saying how "disappointed" they were that they'd not all immediately been transported to heaven the moment Obama stepped into the White House!
  Where was the "change"?
Contrary to their expectations they were still mere mortals!
   
 And the legion of young new supporters was too busy texting to pay attention for longer than a nanosecond.
 "Governing"?! What the hell does that word, uh, like mean?"
   
  The President's critics left and right all had one thing in common:

   Impatience laced with little-to-no sense of history (let alone reality) thrown in for good measure.
Then of course there were the white, snide know-it-all  commentators/talking heads who just couldn't imagine that maybe, just maybe they weren't as smart as they  thought they were and certainly not as smart as their president.
He hadn't consulted them, had he? So he must be wrong!

The Obama critics' ideological ideas defined their idea of reality rather than reality defining their ideas-say, about what is possible in one year in office after the hand that the  President  had been dealt by fate or to be exact by the American idiot nation that voted Bush into office.   Twice!
   
Meanwhile back in the reality-based community -  in just 12 short months -- President Obama:
 1. 
Continued to  draw down the misbegotten war in Iraq
    (But that wasn't good enough for  his critics)
  2.  Thoughtfully and decisively picked the best of several bad choices regarding the war in Afghanistan
    (But that wasn't good enough for his critics)
  3.  Gave a major precedent-setting speech supporting gay rights
    (But that wasn't good enough for his critics)
   4.  Restored America 's image around the globe
    (But that  wasn't good enough for his critics)
   5.  Banned torture of American prisoners
    (But that wasn't good enough for his critics)
   6.  Stopped the free fall of the American economy
    (But that wasn't good enough for his critics)
   7.  Put the USA squarely back in the  bilateral international community. (But that wasn't good enough for his critics)
   8. Put the USA squarely into the middle of the international effort to halt global warming.  (But that wasn't good enough for his critics)
  9.  Stood up for educational reform
    (But that wasn't good enough for his critics)
  10.  Won a Nobel peace  prize
    (But that wasn't good enough for his critics)
   
11.  Moved the  trial of terrorists back into the American judicial 
    system of checks and  balances

    (But that wasn't good enough for his critics)
   12.  He did what had to be done to start the slow, torturous and almost impossible process of health care reform that 7 presidents had failed to even  begin
    (But that wasn't good enough for his critics)
   13.  Responded  to hatred from the right and left with measured good humor and  patience
    (But that wasn't good enough for his critics)
  14.  Stopped  the free fall of job losses
    (But that wasn't good enough for his  critics)
  15.  Showed immense personal courage; in the face of an armed and dangerous far right opposition that included the sort of disgusting people that show up at public meetings carrying loaded weapons and carrying Timothy McVeigh-inspired signs about the "blood of tyrants” needing to "water the tree of liberty".
    (But that wasn't good enough for his critics)
  16.  Showed that he could not only make the tough  military choices but explain and defend them brilliantly
    (But that  wasn't good enough for his critics)
   
   
Other than those  "disappointing" accomplishments -- IN ONE YEAR --

  How did President Obama  "fail"! Other than that he didn't "live up to unrealistic expectations"!
    Who actually has failed...
   
    ...are the Americans that can't see the beginning  of a miracle of 
    national rebirth right under their jaded noses.
Who failed? 
The smart ass ideologues of the left and right who began rooting for this President to fail so that they could be proved right in their
dire and morbid predictions.
Who failed?
 The movers and shakers behind our obscenely dumb news cycles that have turned "news" into just more stupid entertainment for an  entertainment-besotted infantile country.
   
   
Here's the good news: 
 President Obama is succeeding without the help of his lefty "supporters" or hate-filled Republican detractors!
   
   
The Future Looks Good

    After Obama has served two full terms, (and he will),  after his 
    wisdom in moving deliberately and cautiously with great subtlety  on all fronts -- with a canny and calculating eye to the possible succeeds, (it will), after the economy is booming and new industries are  burgeoning, (they will be), after the doomsayers are all proved not just  wrong but silly:
Let the record show that not all Americans were panicked into thinking the sky was falling.
     Just because we didn't get everything we wanted in the first short and fraught year Obama has been in office not all of us has  given up.
Some of us has stayed the course.  And we will be proved right.
   
    PS. if you agree that Obama is shaping up to be a great president, please pass this on and hang in there! 
 Pass it on anyway to ensure that his "report card" gets the attention it deserves.

AuntieDonna says: 
Amen and pass the prosperity, there is enough wealth for everyone to live the best life in America

   

Saturday, August 7, 2010

Alone, but Not Lonely

Alone, But Not Lonely

You can be alone and not lonely. And there are several reasons why at this moment in time you do not have the type of friends you deserve or husband God has for you.


We need quiet alone time

What is quiet alone time? It is a time in your life when you are not dating or married, you are not involved in regular social activities and you do not have many if any close friends. And, last but not least you are not involved in your children or family’s day to day lives.
There could be several reasons why we experience a quiet seasons. This is the term I use when I go through quiet alone eras. I always feel revived, renewed, rejuvenated after my quite alone times. I am refocused and super motivated to do what I do to do to go to the next level of my life. Some my call
the next season instead of level, but whatever you call it is the next season of our lives.



Be still and know that I Am God
Palms 46:10


One reason, we need quiet alone time, is we need to hear from God. God has the solution for all that concerns us and everything that is going on in our lives. We need to turn off all cell phones, televisions, radios, pagers any and all distractions. And once you start this habit you will want to continue quiet times regularly.


     When was the last time you were perfectly still and quite? I mean your body is not moving and your mind is not wondering. Peace, wonderful peace and quite is something we actually need in our daily lives.
The command to be still means……
God’s commands us to be still, to be quite, to let go, to release; give yourself and all of your concerns over to Him. (Palms 138:8) God, your Father, your creator, your everything you need promises to perfect everything that concerns you. I love to mediate on this verse because it comforts me and reminds me not to stress or worry about anything, but to give everything over to God and let Him use His might power on my behalf and for my benefit. 




       Another verse I use during my quite times with God are: “My God shall supply all your need (s) according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus.” This promise covers everything and I have many testimonies as to how has supplied my every need. Please know this what God has done for others His will do for you, because God is no respecter of persons. (Acts: 34 – 35) 


This means God does not show favoritism.


Ask Him for peace, divine order, finances, healing, ask for whatever you need.
Try God

Monday, August 2, 2010

Love Thy Self, part II


WAKE UP TO SELF-LOVE Part I

Love yourself, better than anyone can love you!

  Why are so many teens and women trying to change their appearance? 
  Why are we spending billion of dollars trying to change our hair, color, face   and body shape? 
  Why are we falling the hype, “Blonds have more fun”, or you have to be thin to be beautiful?  
  What do you think would happen if we spent all of this time and effort, not to mention money on inner self improvement, learning to love and appreciate our selves or discovering and developing our talents?
Where is our self love?

We must learn to love and accept our self

 
Ladies, please check out Laurie Martin’s, website:
http://www.smileacrossyourheart.com/.  First, Laurie is an author, inspirational, and professional speaker, certified Life Coach as well as a radio host.  She teaches self-love, self reliance, inner wisdom and empowerment, the same exact tools we are developing for ourselves.  Ms. Martin has written several books than you can find at: www.Amazon.com.  And second, I found out about Laurie Martin, from Kim Coles, site: http://kimcoles.tv/2010/07/wake-up-to-self-love/and
http://kimcoles.tv/.  Kim’s site is called G.I. F.T.S, which stands for Gratitude, Intention, Forgiveness, Talents, Self love, skills we should use daily.  We will spend our next sessions exploring the concepts, tools and skills we can use, learn and develop to live and have the life we deserve.

This title is directly from Laurie’s site.
How do you know when you have grown in self-love?
 

1. When you are able to say, "I'm sorry, I was wrong" without excuses.
2. When you are going through a tough situation and you are focusing on the wisdom you are gaining and how you are expanding your heart- into more parts of yourself. 
3. When you notice you are not personalizing other people’s behavior as much. 
4. When you notice you are able to vocalize and communicate instead of run away. 
5. When you have the courage and belief that you are cable of achieving something. 
6. When you describe situations from a higher, positive perspective without blaming others. 
7. When you can see the goodness in others even when they are not feeling good about themselves. 
8. When you are able to forgive yourself and others easier. 
9. You are able to discern what isn’t working for you in relationships; you vocalize it in a responsible way and take action in a way that brings you to a healthy empowered place. 
10. You allow your true self to come out. 
 
11. You trust yourself, your intuition and feelings. 
12. You can laugh when you do silly things instead of reading yourself the riot act. 
 
13. You catch yourself when your mind is spinning on negative things or fixating on others too much, and you draw your energy back to positive thoughts more quickly. 
14. You are able to open your heart and love unconditionally. 
15. When you have more patience with your life path and your divine timing. 
16. When you able to be genuinely happy for others when they are doing well. 
17. When you are able to step into your feelings and be present without running or judging. 
18. When you notice that the people around you are wiser and more in their heart space than previous friends and romantic partners. 
19. When you are able to admit that you don't know what someone is talking about.
20. When you make healthier nutritional choices.
21. When you make time for physical exercise.
22. When you make time for your divine connection, gratitude and prayer.
23. When you are able to open to a new perspective or create a more positive life script.
24. When you are more "clear" on who you are, your desires and the way you express yourself.
25. You are able to say, "No, I don't buy into that negative thinking because I believe in the best possible scenario!"
26. You are able to look at your fears like a third party not identifying with you, but as the observer.

After assessing your SELF-LOVE using Laurie's list, where do you stand??
 
Where do you want do be on this list of self love, self assurance and self worth? 
Please remember your have to love yourself so much, that no one can love you better.

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SELF LOVE PART II

My daughter Arntetta has learned how to love herself.  I can see it daily as she strives faithfully to achieve her goals and fulfill her dreams.

In the past few years Arnetta has: 
  • Lost over 100 pounds of excess weight and is still working towards ultimate  health.
  • Published her first book.
  • Entered into a national cooking contest.
  • Went back to school and earned two degrees.
  • Given me two grandsons, by adopting 2 little brothers.
  • Is currently completing her second novel.
  • Works on her self image, self love and self improvement daily.
  Netta is a wonderful work in progress and I am so very, no I am extremely proud of her.

I am proud of all of my daughters and they are all on a journey. Where is your life journey leading you?  Are you on your God designed path?  Or are still trying to please man rather than God?
Galatians 1:10 For am I now seeking the favor of men, or of God? Or am I striving to please men? If I were still trying to please men, I would not be a bond-servant of Christ. 
Once you start working toward your God assigned tasks, you will be amazed as to how you will begin to see things in a different light and your energies and focus will propel you towards fulfilling the dreams God has placed in your heart. 
Today's topic is from a letter I received from Arnetta.  she is always sending me deep and motivating thoughts of wisdom that helps me stay on task.  We all need a cheer leader.  If you do not have one, ask God to send you some.
This is Netta's letter to me today.....

Live Life to the FUllest

Hello, friends and family, how is life treating you?  Or should ask how are living your best life?  Did you pray this morning?  AM Prayer is a must to get your day started on the right foot?


I have one of the most wonderful, positive, full of life daughters.   Arnetta K, is my middle child and a super go getter.   She has completed her first published book. 

The title is "Full Length Mirror", by A.K. Parker.  Please visit www.lulu.com and type in the title of my daughters book. 

Arnetta sent this email to me this AM and she thoughts helped me to gather my thoughts for the day.  Remember friends God as a great and wonder plan for our lives.  check this out......
Jeremiah 29:11
"For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, Plans to prosper you, plans to give you hope and a future."


God, are Father has everything we need and then some.  All we have to do is live by His rules to get it........

My Daughters' thoughts for today....

Hello Mother,


I want to write this note to you. I want to let you know that I love you and pray that you are living your best life. In order to do this, you must let go of the past and only speak encouraging, positive words. You taught me that words are powerful. They are, so speak life into what you want. Know one can change anyone so speaking negatively about them only stills your energy and blocks your blessings. God has a plan for you. You need to get prepared to complete God's plans.


I hope that the information you received about the organization will help you find a place to stay. I know that in time you will fill your home with the items you need. Move forward with the anticipation of greatness.


You deserve the best, but the best will only come when you work toward it. Complete school and set your goals for each month of 2011. By December 2011, you can celebrate all of your efforts and dedication.


Love Always


Arnetta

Saturday, July 10, 2010

Unconditional Self Love

is self acceptance, which is loving and accepting yourself as you are, without

making any excuses or giving explanations. My dear sisters, daughters and

nieces loving your self unconditionally mean you do not look to others for

approval or acceptance. You know and realize that people with low self esteem

almost always try to make others feel bad because they are not feeling good about

their selves. So please listen to Auntie Donna, please do not fall for all of the

oakey dope, (false lies and misconceptions)from the media, the fashion

magazine, teen shows as well as the teen magazines. Their purpose is to make

money, to sell products, to make you think you need their products to look good,

feel good, be loved, appealing or accepted.

Each and every of us are special and unique. We were especially designed and

created for a purpose. So my dear darling sisters, do not look to others and make

comparisons. Because most of the people you are comparing yourself to are

probably comparing their selves to someone else. The confused cycle is

unending, at least until we put an end to it.

May I offer an example; you may be able to relate to….the weight lost and diet

industry. It rakes in billions of dollars annually

from men and women but mostly women who want to lose weight, look thinner or

wear a size 5 or 2 dress. Bloomberg Business Week magazine, states this direct

quote: “Americans spend $40 billion a year on weight-loss programs and

products. They answer Jenny Craig’s enticement to “lose 20 pounds for just $20”

(“plus the cost of food”) or Trimspa’s offer of a seven-day supply of chocolate

Hoodia weight-loss supplements for $24.95.” You can read the complete article

at:

Yes, America is considered the over weight country, but first we need to learn

what is causing our weight problems (if you actually have one) than we can

decide which is the best way to live a healthier life style, instead of jumping from

one fad / program to the next.

But, let’s go back to the topic of self love

With too many single parent homes in our country, the lessons of self

esteem, self confidence and self love may are not stressed or in many

cases are not even taught in our homes. I would like to share with you a

few web sites that offer lessons and insights on self love and self

acceptable. You do not have to have long

straight hair, too be considered beautiful, you do not have to be a size

five to accepted by the so named in-crowd, you do not need light colored

eyes, painted or fake nails to look fly.

You can actually be you own natural beautiful self

Loving yourself, caring and protecting your own ego is more important than wearing what someone else deems the latest or the hottest (got to have fad or fashion) is more important and will take you further in life in the long run.

www.livestrong.com/article/14737-unconditional-self-love-and-self-acceptance/

www.positivityblog.com/index.php/2008/09/29/5-ways-to-self-produce-unconditional-love-and-heal-yourself

www.centerforconsciousliving.com/usa








You can actually be you own natural beautiful self. Loving yourself, caring and

protecting your own ego is more important than wearing what someone else

deems the latest or the hottest (got to have fad or fashion) is more important and

will take you further in life in the long run.

www.livestrong.com/article/14737-unconditional-self-love-and-self-acceptance

www.positivityblog.com/index.php/2008/09/29/5-ways-to-self-produce-unconditional-love-and-heal-yourself

www.centerforconsciousliving.com/usa